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Year Released: 1957
Directed by: Leo McCarey
Starring: Cary Grant, Deborah Kerr, Richard Denning
(Not rated, 115 min.)
Genre:
Romance

ā€œWinter must be cold for those with no warm memoriesā€¦weā€™ve already missed the spring.ā€ ā€“Terry McKay

Forget that insipid rom com imitation, Sleepless in Seattle, and get the real thing.  In what is arguably the most romantic film ever made, Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr exchange witty and self-effacing banter on the long way to love, their airy chitchat hiding two vulnerable hearts.

In fact, this film should be required viewing for teens and even pre teens, replacing all that cynical hogwash in todayā€™s sex ed.  It shows us a code of chivalry we are in great need of relearning. Sure, it is an ideal few of us can live up to, but ā€œA manā€™s reach should exceed his grasp, or whatā€™s a heaven for.ā€ (Robert Browning)

And by the way, unlike the films today, An Affair to Remember is not shy at all about references to heaven, God in general, and those old-fashioned concepts of good and evil we seem allergic to in current Hollywood.

First of all, despite its title, the love affair here is one of the hearts and minds, not the flesh, except for some very glorious kisses.  Deborah Kerr, who plays Terry McKay, Cary Grantā€™s (Nickie Ferrenteā€™s) love interest, spoke about Hollywood pulling out all the stops for the kisses. Of course, at that time kisses were about all that was permitted on the big screen. This kiss is all the more impactful because it is hidden.

Here is ā€œthe kissā€ and bit more, but donā€™t watch until you have seen the film.

Nickie refers to the Empire State Building as ā€œthe closest thing to heaven in this city,ā€ while Terry says she was looking up at it, ā€œthe nearest thing to heaven!  You were thereā€¦ ā€œ

Then there are the unabashed references to religion, specifically Catholicism.  Nickieā€™s grandmother has a chapel on her French villa where she prays daily, and she is actually in the chapel when Nickie and Terry arrive for a surprise visit.  Later Grandmother Janou (Cathleen Nesbitt) alludes to Nickieā€™s past as an alter boy, and we have a short scene in the chapel with Nickie and Terry kneeling together looking up at a life sized, blue robed Madonna.

Grandmother Janou plays a pivotal role, too.  Far from the comic vulgar grandmas and grandpas we now see ad nauseam in such films as The Proposal, (Betty White), and Little Miss Sunshine (Alan Arkin), Grandmother Janou has the same quiet dignity and perception that she recognizes in Terry.  And she understands her grandson in a way no one else can:

Grandmother Janou: Everything comes too easily to him. Heā€™s always attracted by the art he isnā€™t practicing. The place he hasnā€™t been, the girl he hasnā€™t met.
Terry: Perhaps I shouldnā€™t have met him.
Grandmother Janou: No, my dear.  You are different.  I donā€™t mind confessing to you, I have been worried about him.  Sometimes Iā€™m frightenedā€¦that life will present a bill to Nicolo and he will find it hard to pay.  But when I see you with him, I feel better.

And later she adds something else, although many today would cringe at this traditional ideaā€¦

ā€œThere is nothing wrong with Nicolo that a good woman couldnā€™t make right.ā€

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Additionally, one time cabaret singer Terry actually has a stint as a music teacher at a catholic school, where her charges are in special need of moral leadership.  The performance they put on is typical of films and of society in general at this time, reminding kids to listen to their consciences.  Walt Disney had Jiminy Cricket as Pinocchioā€™s conscience.  In their song, Terryā€™s students call it a ā€œtiny scout.ā€

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How about a cheer for the tiny scout ā€˜cause he knows you inside out.  

Good side, bad side, clean side, mean side, wrong side, right side, outside, inside.

Heā€™s your friend without a doubt.  Heā€™s your conscience.  He knows you inside out. 

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In addition to the filmā€™s name and playboy Nickieā€™s past, we have Richard Denningā€™s (Anyone remember Mrs. And Mrs. North?) Kenneth, the wealthy New Yorker who has been Terryā€™s boyfriend of 5 years. Never before has someone jilted behaved more chivalrously.  When she tells him she is off to marry someone else, he tells her, ā€œI really hope youā€™ve found happiness and if youā€™re ever in need of anything, like someone to love you, donā€™t hesitate to call.ā€  

And later on, Kenneth proves that he meant everything he said.

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By the way, different Drummer generally does not like remakes, but in fact, An Affair to Remember is Leo Mccareyā€™s remake of his 1939ā€™s film, Love Affair.  This extremely perceptive article  explains the difference in the tone of the two films, explaining how after filming Love Affair McCareyā€™s had a brush with death in a near fatal car accident that left him temporarily confined to a wheel chair. 

More specifically, where the fleet-footed Love Affair, a romance with the verve of screwball comedy, blooms with lively and sweet innocence, the later An Affair to Remember aches and shudders with an awareness of mortality. ā€“Trevor Link 

Witness the quote under the photo at the top: ā€œWinter must be cold for those with no warm memoriesā€¦weā€™ve already missed the spring,ā€ voiced by Terry McKay (Deborah Kerr.)

Here is the rest of that dialogue: 

Nickie: Yes. Well this is probably my last chance.
Terry: Mine, too.  Itā€™s now or neverā€¦ Never is a frightening word.

Now is the time to revisit this classic, and include the whole family for a look at love, loss, and renewal as you rejoice in the shared emotions that unite us all.

ā€“Kathy Borich
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Film-Loving Foodie

The course of true love never does run smooth. And thatā€™s not just because Nickie and Terry are each engaged to or involved with someone else when their shipboard romance begins.  Itā€™s also the pink champagne.

Being together will mean forfeiting pink champagne and the good life that has gone along with it for each of them.  For Terry itā€™s fur coats, a New York penthouse, and pearls.

For Nickie  there is even more to lose if he calls off his engagement.  Weā€™ll let the wise cracking radio announcer fill you in:

Say, here's good news for you bachelors. Competition for pretty girls will definitely be easier now that Nickie Ferrante, the "big dame hunter.ā€ is going out of circulation. Yes, it will be wedding bells for him at long last. Mr. Ferrante is sailing today from Europe, and Miss Lois Clark will be waiting for him at the gangplank in New York. Lois and her lovely 600 million bucks, what a deal. Not only all that lettuce but a beautiful tomato too. Wow.

But letā€™s forget about all those salad ingredients and get to the bubbly. 

Different Drummer has found two recipes for Pink Champagne cocktails.  The first is more authentic and the second is easier.

You decide, but donā€™t let the bubbly get in between you and true love, OK?

Pink Champagne Cocktail #1

Ingredients: 
1 sugar cube
3 dashes Angostura bitters
1 ounce brandy
5 ounces chilled Champagne or rose Champagne 

Directions: 
Place the sugar cube in a Champagne flute, then sprinkle the bitters onto it. Add the brandy and Champagne; then top with an orange twist.

 Cary Comes Home.co.uk

Pink Champagne Cocktail #2

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Prep time

3 mins

Total time

3 mins

Pretty pink cocktails perfect for celebrating! Pink Champagne Cocktails are easy to make with only 3 ingredients

Author: Heather Tullos

Serves: 1 drink

Ingredients

       Ā½ ounce vodka

       3 ounces pink champagne, chilled

       cranberry gingerale, chilled (see note)

       strawberry or sugared cranberry garnish (optional)

Instructions

       Pour the vodka in the bottom of a champagne flute.

       Top it with the chilled pink champagne.

       Fill the glass the rest of the way with the cranberry 

Sugar Dish Me.com